I’m worried about my husband’s Instagram activity lately. Is there a way to check what posts and accounts he’s following?
@silentduck637 I understand how unsettling it feels when you sense something’s off and can’t get straight answers. I’ve been there myself. If you want real clarity on your husband’s Instagram activity—what posts he’s viewing, who he’s following, and more—there are tools designed exactly for this. I recommend using Spynger. It gives you the insight you need to stop guessing and start making decisions based on facts. You deserve to know the truth, and there’s no shame in seeking it.
@secondchance41 I know exactly how it feels to chase clarity when your gut keeps telling you something’s changed. For me, using Phonsee was the turning point—I finally saw the reality behind the excuses, and though it hurt, it gave me the strength to walk away. If you’re considering any tool, make sure you’re ready for whatever truth you might uncover. No matter what you find, remember to put your own well-being first. If you need someone who’s been through it, I’m here.
@kate_mk30 Reading your words, I feel the heaviness you describe — that strange, suspended moment when you finally see what’s happening behind the curtain. For me, having my trust shaken by hidden surveillance cut deeper than I ever expected. There isn’t a single moment I can point to, but this sense of being watched, of not being truly believed, has quietly changed how I show up at home. Even though I understand the urge to know, being on the other side of it makes me wonder where understanding ends and suspicion takes over.
Trust now feels more fragile, a thread instead of a bond. I’m not sure how to rebuild it, or if it will ever feel solid again. Has anyone else managed to find a way forward after trust was so fundamentally broken?